Hi My Friend,
WOW…did you hit it right on the exact spot…THANK YOU!
You know I was just thinking about all you said today earlier. I just want you to know that you have so eloquently put in words ‘ the life of a woman!’ I say that in all honesty and I think it surpasses any and all boundaries, there are none! Being a woman and simply being YOU has it’s vunerabilities and there are times you start to question so very much.
I agree with all you said. Also, I believe you truly know deep down all the answers to begin with and that is why there are ‘ no correct choices that can be made’ nor ‘ can any one else have YOUR answers for you.’ You already have all the questions too, you just for different reasons don’t deal with them until it is time…
Life is a beautiful thing because I believe God made WOMAN exactly for this special reason. And you know , I finally figured something out at the age of being 56 yrs young. I had to reach this point in life to be able to understand it all and know what I know now. I had to go through all the tears, heartaches, pains, joys, victories, etc to appreciate all the wonderful blessings I now have. Even if someone had told me all that I know now then, it just would not have made any sense at all until I actually walked my own path, not someone else’s but my own.
Now, I see so very much and many times I may not have liked all I saw and I may have even questioned a lot ,but ALWAYS after I had gone through my process of what I call the FUDS (fear, uncertainty, doubt and skepticism.) did it all begin to make sense. The one thing that made it all right and that was that I had arrived , I made it here, at this very point in life.
No matter what anyone else may think or no matter how many other thoughts others may have the one who knows besides me is God. And for that reason I say, now, on today at this very moment, I LOVE ME… Again, I thank you being a woman for writing what you feel and allowing others such as myself to just look at ourselves in the very beauty that we ALL are and be PROUD!
Albert and Tempie